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Secrets of Self-Discipline in Love: 3 Powerful Ways to Build It
How to Build Self-Discipline in Life and Love
Whether you want to lose weight, stop procrastinating, or change your behaviors with men, you will need some self-discipline.
Is that a problem for you?
Don’t worry. You can develop the skill of self-discipline the way you can other skills. In this article, I will teach you how to build self-discipline in life and dating.
What Are the Secrets to Building Self Discipline?
First of all, you need to understand that self-discipline is built over time. It won’t miraculously appear one day when you least expect it. Only when you begin to think about it and work on it regularly, will you start to see improvement.
But, why is it so hard to be disciplined?
It’s natural for us to want to feel good right now and avoid feeling bad. It’s just how human nature works. Why resist that piece of chocolate cake? It will feel good to eat it and bad to feel deprived.
You want a man to pursue you, but it feels bad to wait and wonder if he will text or call you. If you text him, at least you don’t have to wait for a response. You’ll get a good feeling of having contact with him again. The only problem is, when you don’t give him time to…