Love Life Goals: Why Love Feels Elusive When You’re Ready — Be Your Own Brand of Sexy

Three years after her divorce, Diana was tired. She’d tried everything — at least that’s what she told her friends. She kept her dating profile active. She went to her community’s singles events. She said yes when friends offered to set her up.

But somehow, each year felt like a replay of the last. She’d start January full of hope, convinced this year would be different. By spring, she’d be going through the motions of dinner dates, already knowing within five minutes why each man wasn’t right. Too focused on his ex, too set in his ways, too eager to retire when she still loved her career.

Come summer, she’d feel the loneliness more acutely. She’d find herself considering the occasional dinner invitations from Richard, a widower she’d met through her business network. Nothing had sparked between them, but he was respectful, stable, and available. At least the holiday parties wouldn’t feel so awkward with someone to talk to.

One evening over dinner with Richard, Diana found herself in that familiar place of uncertainty. Here was someone she genuinely liked, whose company she enjoyed. Sometimes she wondered if maybe there could be more. Her friend Marie had suggested she might be closing herself off to possibilities. But something held her back. Her…