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Is Conflict Good? How Empowering Yourself Can Improve Your Love Life
Let’s talk about power and your love life. Do you need more power in it? Perhaps you find this question a bit strange and don’t know how power can help you, but if you are feeling powerless when it comes to dating, it can actually help a lot!
Power is often an emotionally charged word, and usually not one that many women will feel very comfortable with. After all, being too powerful can cause conflict with someone, and that’s a scary outcome for anyone. But here’s the thing: conflict isn’t always bad. Sometimes, it can actually make a man a lot more interested in you.
If it’s done right.
Hold on. How can conflict be appealing to a man?
Well, just think about it. Can a man actually fall in love with you if he doesn’t know who you are? If you are putting in the effort to hide potential disagreements, then you’re likely not letting your true opinion or voice be heard. He probably feels like he doesn’t even know you. Maybe he wonders what you might be hiding from him, why you avoid fully discussing certain things.
How can he tell if he can connect with you?
This happens a lot to those we can call “people-pleasers”, and unfortunately many women are raised to fill this role. As a result, power might not come…