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How to Keep the Fireworks Alive in Your Dating Relationship | Be Your Own Brand of Sexy

Dr. Susan Edelman
4 min readJun 29, 2019

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The 4th of July is almost here, and it’s an excellent time to start thinking about how couples can keep the spark alive in their relationship. Are you looking to inject a little romance into these lazy summer days? You might also want to use this time to sort out the differences between positive fireworks and sparks in your relationship, and the kind of fireworks that can be explosive and blow up your relationship.

What do sparks mean for your relationship?

When you’re in the early stages of going out with an interesting new man, the idea is to get to know whether he’ll make a good partner, so we’re not discussing what to do in the bedroom. This article is about how to keep his interest when your goal is to discover whether he’ll make a good long term partner for you. If sex is his main focus when you first meet, he’s probably not going to make the best partner long term. If he’s really into you, he’ll wait to have sex, even if that’s not his first choice. So, the “sparks” in your relationship aren’t necessarily referring to sex.

Good communication is vital to any budding new relationship. This doesn’t mean you have to tell him every little detail about how you’re feeling about the relationship. But it does mean that…

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Dr. Susan Edelman
Dr. Susan Edelman

Written by Dr. Susan Edelman

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