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How to Get a Prize Mindset: 7 Secrets that Will Make Men See You as High Quality
Are You Acting Like a Prize with Men When You Are Dating and in Relationships?
When you are looking for a solid relationship, one of the most important things to pay attention to is if you are valued and treasured by your man. The way you approach every date with a prospective future partner sets the stage for that. If you see yourself as a prize that he must earn, he will look for ways to jump through hoops to make you happy. If you see yourself as a consolation prize, he may not work very hard because he doesn’t have to.
Which do you want to be?
Can I Be the Prize He Must Earn?
You probably admire other women for their beauty, confidence, or influence. Others probably look at you and see your wonderful qualities, but it might be hard for you to fully appreciate them.
If you think that confidence is the secret to getting a man to value you, you probably worry if you lack it. But there are ways to “fake it until you make it.” You just have to know what they are and practice them. Pretending to be confident lets you try it on for size, and it can even lead to you becoming more confident.
You just have to decide: do you want to be the prize he desires or are you willing to settle for…