How to Enjoy Being Single When You Want a Relationship

Bridget Jones’ character captured our hearts in both the book and movie, Bridget Jones’ Diary, resonating deeply because she grapples with our universal challenge of not meeting societal expectations. From navigating a relationship with a commitment-phobic womanizer to enduring the pressure from “smug marrieds” urging her to find a partner, Bridget’s journey mirrors the struggles many women face. Her battle with weight, cigarettes, and alcohol adds layers to her relatable narrative. Helen Fielding’s wildly popular work not only validated our shared struggles but also added humor to our heartbreak, reinforcing the idea that we weren’t alone. Bridget emerges as the quintessential modern woman, navigating societal expectations and often falling short.

When you want a partner, it can be hard to enjoy your single status. Did you just get out of a long relationship and feel lonely? Are all your friends married now, leaving you wondering when you’ll meet someone too? Is your family pressuring you to settle down? You may feel too old to meet a good man or maybe being alone has always been hard for you.

What can make your situation feel worse is hearing those dreaded questions:

“ Why are you still single? “ or

“ Do you have a boyfriend?”