How to Avoid Being Manipulated in a Relationship Now

I won’t sugarcoat it — the dating world can be a minefield of deception and manipulation. Fortunately, you can develop an essential skill that will protect your heart and empower you to identify the genuine connection you deserve. Everyone wants to influence their partner’s behavior or perceptions in some way. Manipulators use deceptive or abusive tactics. They may try this directly or indirectly. It may seem harmless, just friendly and flattering. They may try to make you feel guilty or ashamed by complaining, blaming, or comparing you to others. In extreme cases, they may use rage, intimidation, or threats against you. In its worst form, it’s a cheater or an abusive partner who wants to control you or harm you. Any way they do it, these people are out for their interests, not yours.

But manipulation doesn’t only happen in a relationship. We are also potentially influenced by the advertisements, words, and actions of politicians, movies, the news, and more. Don’t forget that your dates, boyfriends, partners, boss, kids, or mother may also try to influence you sometimes. They may even have the best of intentions, but it may not be what you think is best for you.

Nobody Likes Being Manipulated

The problem with being manipulated is that it feels like you have been pushed or tricked into something you don’t…