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How Online Dating Affects Mental Health: The Hidden Struggle — Be Your Own Brand of Sexy

Dr. Susan Edelman
5 min readJan 25, 2025

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Sarah laughed as she recounted her latest online dating experience to her friends over coffee. “So there I was, all dressed up for our first meeting, and guess what? He never showed up. Not even a message to cancel!”

Her friend Lisa chimed in with the inevitable success story: “My cousin met her husband online last year — they’re so happy! You just have to stay positive. It takes time.” Sarah nodded, but inside, she felt a familiar twinge of shame and frustration. She couldn’t help but wonder why it felt so much harder for her. Was she doing something wrong? Why did everyone else seem to be finding love? Her experience so far had been a string of letdowns — awkward exchanges, men who didn’t resemble their profile pictures, and outright rejection. Far from the hopeful stories apps promised, finding a genuine connection felt like an uphill battle.

The Digital Dating Dilemma

When did dating become so… complicated? Once upon a time, you met someone, felt a spark, and decided whether to pursue it. Now you have an entire digital universe where potential relationships live in your phone, bringing possibilities and pressures our parents never imagined. While these apps promise to make finding love easier, they’ve created an entirely new emotional…

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Dr. Susan Edelman
Dr. Susan Edelman

Written by Dr. Susan Edelman

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