Emotional Intelligence in Dating: Building Real Connections — Be Your Own Brand of Sexy

Anne laughs-genuinely-at Richard’s joke.

“You have a great sense of humor,” she says, noticing his left hand has no tan line from a wedding band.

“Life’s too short not to find the funny parts,” Richard replies, his smile reaching his eyes.

He leans forward. “My daughter graduates next month. First in the family to get a master’s degree.”

“That’s wonderful,” Anne says. Grown children. Supportive father. Good relationship with his kids.

“What about you? Any children?” he asks.

“A son in Chicago. We’re close.” Anne sips her wine. “Tell me more about your publishing company.”

“Small but mighty,” Richard says. “We specialize in regional history books. Not getting rich, but I love what I do.”

Passionate about his work. But is publishing stable?

“What about you?” he asks.

“Consulting three days a week now. Easing into semi-retirement.”

Richard nods. “Smart. Life’s for living, not just working.”

Lacks ambition? Or has healthy priorities?