Dating Less? Maybe It’s a Good Sign | Be Your Own Brand of Sexy

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It’s easy for women to start to worry when things slow down in the dating department. I’ve had more than one patient on the road to becoming their own Brand of Sexy say to me, “Dr. Susan, what’s going on? I thought I’d be dating more often now, but instead…” These dry spells can lead many women to start to doubt themselves and their new outlook.

If you feel like you aren’t having as many dates as you would like, there’s no reason to get discouraged. In fact, it may mean you have embraced your own Brand of Sexy and are at a healthier place now than ever before.

Maybe you have less dates these days because:

  • You are impressively intimidating to many men.

Patience is a virtue, but we all know that waiting can be very hard. Have some faith that all the work you’ve been doing on yourself is paying off. It also helps to remember that you should be proactive too. Consider ways you can be approachable and sociable at a level that is both comfortable for you and welcoming to others. Be your own brand of sexy!

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If you haven’t already, you might also want to read my book: Be Your Own Brand of Sexy: A New Sexual Revolution for Women. Having earned several literary awards and positive reviews, Be Your Own Brand of Sexy is one of Amazon’s top 500 Books on Relationships and called “a must have book for all women dating or looking to date “.

Looking for a bit of easy inspiration? A friendly face to say you can do it, today and every day? My YouTube channel may have just what you need.

Originally published at on August 10, 2017.

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