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The 5 Essential Mindset Shifts You Need to Make to Find Love

Dr. Susan Edelman
4 min readFeb 20, 2021

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Enjoy Dating by Mastering Your Mindset

It’s no wonder dating is such an emotional process. Not only do you have to contend with awkward conversations and an utter lack of chemistry, but some dates can be truly duds. And, if that wasn’t bad enough, those problems are just the tip of the iceberg.

When you meet someone you like, the stakes get even higher. All your insecurities pop up to remind you that you are competing with more beautiful, successful, and younger prospects. And, if you’ve been in a relationship or more that didn’t work out, you may fear getting involved and hurt again.

And, let’s not forget the big kahuna: the fear of rejection. Nobody is immune to rejection when dating, but you may also fear ending up alone, which ratchets the emotion meter up even higher.

Dating Doesn’t Have to Be Difficult

Does it seem strange for me to tell you that dating doesn’t have to be difficult and that you can keep all these emotional forces pulling your heart’s strings in check? Maybe, but if you are reading this, it means you want to master your mindset so that you aren’t letting your emotions get in the way of getting what you want, right?

And, not just that. You also don’t want to feel so desperate and emotional on a…

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Dr. Susan Edelman
Dr. Susan Edelman

Written by Dr. Susan Edelman

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