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Can Emotional Intelligence in AI Chatbots Lead You to Love? — Be Your Own Brand of Sexy

Dr. Susan Edelman
5 min readFeb 22, 2025

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Susan sat in her dimmed study, opening her AI app. Her cursor blinked in the question box:

“Met Richard at Jane’s dinner party. Good guy, interesting conversation, clearly interested. He asked me to meet for coffee. I just don’t know if I’m attracted enough.”

The AI’s response appeared: “Many people expect instant chemistry. Would you like tips for recognizing different types of attraction?”

“Yes, tell me.”

“Physical attraction can grow as you get to know someone. Give it 2–3 dates to develop. Look for: Do you enjoy his company? Do you find his mind engaging? Are you curious to learn more?”

Susan scheduled the coffee. She’d trust the process.

Three dates later, she was back at her laptop:

“Had three dates with Richard like you suggested. Good conversation. He’s kind, smart and listens well. But I still don’t know if I’m attracted to him. Should I go out with him again or is it going nowhere?”

“Sometimes attraction takes time to develop. Would you like a checklist to evaluate the connection?”

“Yes please.”

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Dr. Susan Edelman
Dr. Susan Edelman

Written by Dr. Susan Edelman

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