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7 Critical Tips for How to Handle a “Ghoster” Coming Back into Your Life
The Return of the Ghoster: What You Should Do When He Shows Up Again after Disappearing
Tell me if this sounds familiar:
Everything was going well with him for a few weeks or months.
And then he disappeared into thin air.
You were disappointed, hurt, and angry. Maybe you were even heartbroken. But you got over it.
Now, weeks or months later, he’s back and you’re confused about what to do.
Unfortunately, this situation has become so common that it has even been given a name.
You have been ghosted.
What Is Ghosting?
Ghosting happens when someone cuts off all communications abruptly and without any explanations.
It is not just men who are guilty of this behavior. Both men and women disappear when they don’t dare to tell the person they are dating that they aren’t going to continue to see them. They are not brave enough to tell you that they are breaking up with you.
Now that he’s back, this can be a very confusing situation. If you really liked him, you may wonder if a relationship with him has any future. Understandably, you are also concerned about getting hurt again…